169.Don\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'tletyesterdayuseuptoomuchoftoday.别留念昨天了，把握好今天吧。(WillRogers)170.Ifyouarenotbraveenough,noonewillbackyouup.你不勇敢，没人替你坚强。171.Ifyoudon\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'tbuildyourdream,someonewillhireyoutobuildtheirs.如果你没有梦想，那么你只能为别人的梦想打工。172.Beautyisallaround,ifyoujustopenyourhearttosee.只要你给自己机会，你会发现你的世界可以很美丽。173.Thedifferenceinwinningandlosingismostoften...notquitting.赢与输的差别通常是--不放弃。(华特·迪士尼)174.Iamordinaryyetunique.我很平凡，但我独一无二。175.Ilikepeoplewhomakemelaughinspiteofmyself.我喜欢那些让我笑起来的人，就算是我不想笑的时候。176.Imageanewstoryforyourlifeandstartlivingit.为你的生命想一个全新剧本，并去倾情出演吧！177.I\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'dratherbeahappyfoolthanasadsage.做个悲伤的智者，不如做个开心的傻子。178.Thefuturebelongstothosewhobelieveinthebeautyoftheirdreams.未来属于那些相信梦想之美的人。(埃莉诺·罗斯福)179.Evenifyougetnoapplause,youshouldacceptacurtaincallgracefullyandappreciateyourownefforts.即使没有人为你鼓掌，也要优雅的谢幕，感谢自己的认真付出。180.Don\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'tletdreamjustbeyourdream.别让梦想只停留在梦里。181.Adaywithoutlaughterisadaywasted.没有笑声的一天是浪费了的一天。(卓别林)182.Travelandseetheworld;afterwards,youwillbeabletoputyourconcernsinperspective.去旅行吧，见的世面多了，你会发现原来在意的那些结根本算不了什么。183.Thekeytoacquiringproficiencyinanytaskisrepetition.任何事情成功关键都是熟能生巧。《生活大爆炸》184.Youcanbehappynomatterwhat.开心一点吧，管它会怎样。185.Agoodplantodayisbetterthanaperfectplantomorrow.今天的好计划胜过明天的完美计划。186.Nothingisimpossible,theworditselfsays\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'I\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'mpossible\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'!一切皆有可能！“不可能”的意思是：“不，可能。”(奥黛丽·赫本)187.Lifeisn\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'tfair,butnomatteryourcircumstances,youhavetogiveityourall.生活是不公平的，不管你的境遇如何，你只能全力以赴。188.Nomatterhowharditis,justkeepgoingbecauseyouonlyfailwhenyougiveup.无论多么艰难，都要继续前进，因为只有你放弃的那一刻，你才输了。WhenPaulJobswasmusteredoutoftheCoastGuardafterWorldWarII,hemadeawagerwithhiscrewmates.TheyhadarrivedinSanFrancisco,wheretheirshipwasdecommissioned,andPaulbetthathewouldfindhimselfawifewithintwoweeks.Hewasataut,tattooedenginemechanic,sixfeettall,withapassingresemblancetoJamesDean.Butitwasn’thislooksthatgothimadatewithClaraHagopian,asweet-humoreddaughterofArmenianimmigrants.Itwasthefactthatheandhisfriendshadacar,unlikethegroupshehadoriginallyplannedtogooutwiththatevening.Tendayslater,inMarch1946,PaulgotengagedtoClaraandwonhiswager.Itwouldturnouttobeahappymarriage,onethatlasteduntildeathpartedthemmorethanfortyyearslater.PaulReinholdJobshadbeenraisedonadairyfarminGermantown,Wisconsin.Eventhoughhisfatherwasanalcoholicandsometimesabusive,Paulendedupwithagentleandcalmdispositionunderhisleatheryexterior.Afterdroppingoutofhighschool,hewanderedthroughtheMidwestpickingupworkasamechanicuntil,atagenineteen,hejoinedtheCoastGuard,eventhoughhedidn’tknowhowtoswim.HewasdeployedontheUSSGeneralM.C.MeigsandspentmuchofthewarferryingtroopstoItalyforGeneralPatton.Histalentasamachinistandfiremanearnedhimcommendations,butheoccasionallyfoundhimselfinminortroubleandneverroseabovetherankofseaman.ClarawasborninNewJersey,whereherparentshadlandedafterfleeingtheTurksinArmenia,andtheymovedtotheMissionDistrictofSanFranciscowhenshewasachild.Shehadasecretthatsherarelymentionedtoanyone:Shehadbeenmarriedbefore,butherhusbandhadbeenkilledinthewar.SowhenshemetPaulJobsonthatfirstdate,shewasprimedtostartanewlife.Clara,however,lovedSanFrancisco,andin1952sheconvincedherhusbandtomovebackthere.TheygotanapartmentintheSunsetDistrictfacingthePacific,justsouthofGoldenGatePark,andhetookajobworkingforafinancecompanyasa“repoman,”pickingthelocksofcarswhoseownershadn’tpaidtheirloansandrepossessingthem.Healsobought,repaired,andsoldsomeofthecars,makingadecentenoughlivingintheprocess.Therewas,however,somethingmissingintheirlives.Theywantedchildren,butClarahadsufferedanectopicpregnancy,inwhichthefertilizedeggwasimplantedinafallopiantuberatherthantheuterus,andshehadbeenunabletohaveany.So颗普通的行星，但它在许多方面都是独一无二的。比如，它是太阳系中唯一一颗面积大部分被水覆盖的行星，也是目前所知唯一一颗有生命存在的ArthurSchieblediedinAugust1955,aftertheadoptionwasfinalized.JustafterChristmasthatyear,JoanneandAbdulfattahweremarriedinSt.PhiliptheApostleCatholicChurchinGreenBay.HegothisPhDininternationalpoliticsthenextyear,andthentheyhadanotherchild,agirlnamedMona.AftersheandJandalidivorcedin1962,Joanneembarkedonadreamyandperipateticlifethatherdaughter,whogrewuptobecometheacclaimednovelistMonaSimpson,wouldcaptureinherbookAnywherebutHere.BecauseSteve’sadoptionhadbeenclosed,itwouldbetwentyyearsbeforetheywouldallfindeachother.SteveJobsknewfromanearlyagethathewasadopted.“Myparentswereveryopenwithmeaboutthat,”herecalled.Hehadavividmemoryofsittingonthelawnofhishouse,whenhewassixorsevenyearsold,tellingthegirlwholivedacrossthestreet.“Sodoesthatmeanyourrealparentsdidn’twantyou?”thegirlasked.“Lightningboltswentoffinmyhead,”accordingtoJobs.“Irememberrunningintothehouse,crying.Andmyparentssaid,‘No,youhavetounderstand.’Theywereveryseriousandlookedmestraightintheeye.Theysaid,‘Wespecificallypickedyouout.’Bothofmyparentssaidthatandrepeateditslowlyforme.Andtheyputanemphasisoneverywordinthatsentence.”Abandoned.Chosen.Special.ThoseconceptsbecamepartofwhoJobswasandhowheregardedhimself.Hisclosestfriendsthinkthattheknowledgethathewasgivenupatbirthleftsomescars.“Ithinkhisdesireforcompletecontrolofwhateverhemakesderivesdirectlyfromhispersonalityandthefactthathewasabandonedatbirth,”saidonelongtimecolleague,DelYocam.“Hewantstocontrolhisenvironment,andheseestheproductasanextensionofhimself.”GregCalhoun,whobecameclosetoJobsrightaftercollege,sawanothereffect.“Stevetalkedtomealotaboutbeingabandonedandthepainthatcaused,”hesaid.“Itmadehimindependent.Hefollowedthebeatofadifferentdrummer,andthatcamefrombeinginadifferentworldthanhewasborninto.”Laterinlife,whenhewasthesameagehisbiologicalfatherhadbeenwhenheabandonedhim,Jobswouldfatherandabandonachildofhisown.(Heeventuallytookresponsibilityforher.)ChrisannBrennan,themotherofthatchild,saidthatbeingputupforadoptionleftJobs“fullofbrokenglass,”andithelpstoexplainsomeofhisbehavior.“Hewhoisabandonedisanabandoner,”shesaid.AndyHertzfeld,whoworkedwithJobsatAppleintheearly1980s,isamongthefewwhoremainedclosetobothBrennanandJobs.“ThekeyquestionaboutSteveiswhyhecan’tttygood,”hesaid,“becauseheknewhowtobuildanything.Ifweneededacabinet,hewouldbuildit.Whenhebuiltourfence,hegavemeahammersoIcouldworkwithhim.”FiftyyearslaterthefencestillsurroundsthebackandsideyardsofthehouseinMountainView.AsJobsshoweditofftome,hecaressedthestockadepanelsandrecalledalessonthathisfatherimplanteddeeplyinhim.Itwasimportant,hisfathersaid,tocraftthebacksofcabinetsandfencesproperly,eventhoughtheywerehidden.“Heloveddoingthingsright.Heevencaredaboutthelookofthepartsyoucouldn’tsee.”Hisfathercontinuedtorefurbishandresellusedcars,andhefestoonedthegaragewithpicturesofhisfavorites.Hewouldpointoutthedetailingofthedesigntohisson:thelines,thevents,thechrome,thetrimoftheseats.Afterworkeachday,hewouldchangeintohisdungareesandretreattothegarage,oftenwithStevetaggingalong.“IfiguredIcouldgethimnaileddownwithalittlemechanicalability,buthereallywasn’tinterestedingettinghishandsdirty,”Paullaterrecalled.“Heneverreallycaredtoomuchaboutm189.Itrequireshardworktogiveoffanappearanceofeffortlessness.你必须十分努力，才能看起来毫不费力。190.Lifeislikeridingabicycle.Tokeepyourbalance,youmustkeepmoving.人生就像骑单车，只有不断前进，才能保持平衡。(爱因斯坦)191.Bethankfulforwhatyouhave.You\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'llenduphavingmore.拥有一颗感恩的心，最终你会得到更多。192.Beautyishowyoufeelinside,anditreflectsinyoureyes.美是一种内心的感觉，并反映在你的眼睛里。(索菲亚·罗兰)193.Friendshipdoublesyourjoys,anddividesyoursorrows.朋友的作用，就是让你快乐加倍，痛苦减半。194.Whenyoulongforsomethingsincerely,thewholeworldwillhelpyou.当你真心渴望某样东西时，整个宇宙都会来帮忙。echanicalthings.”“Iwasn’tthatintofixingcars,”Jobsadmitted.“ButIwaseagertohangoutwithmydad.”Evenashewasgrowingmoreawarethathehadbeenadopted,hewasbecomingmoreattachedtohisfather.Onedaywhenhewasabouteight,hediscoveredaphotographofhisfatherfromhistimeintheCoastGuard.“He’sintheengineroom,andhe’sgothisshirtoffandlookslikeJamesDean.ItwasoneofthoseOhwowmomentsforakid.Wow,oooh,myparentswereactuallyonceveryyoungandreallygood-looking.”Throughcars,hisfathergaveStevehisfirstexposuretoelectronics.“Mydaddidnothaveadeepunderstandingofelectronics,buthe’dencountereditalotinautomobilesandotherthingshewouldfix.Heshowedmetherudimentsofelectronics,andIgotveryinterestedinthat.”Evenmoreinterestingwerethetripstoscavengeforparts.“Everyweekend,there’dbeajunkyardtrip.We’dbelookingforagenerator,acarburetor,allsortsofcomponents.”Herememberedwatchinghisfathernegotiateatthecounter.“Hewasagoodbargainer,becauseheknewbetterthantheguysatthecounterwhatthepartsshouldcost.”Thishelpedfulfillthepledgehisparentsmadewhenhewasadopted.“Mycollegefundcamefrommydadpaying$50foraFordFalconorsomeotherbeat-upcarthatdidn’trun,workingonitforafewweeks,andsellingitfor$250—andnottellingtheIRS.”TheJobses’houseandtheothersintheirneighborhoodwerebuiltbytherealestatedeveloperJosephEichler,whosecompanyspawnedmorethaneleventhousandhomesinvariousCaliforniasubdivisionsbetween1950and1974.InspiredbyFrankLloydWright’svisionofsimplemodernhomesfortheAmerican“everyman,”Eichlerbuiltinexpensivehousesthatfeaturedfloor-to-ceilingglasswalls,openfloorplans,exposedpost-and-beamconstruction,concreteslabfloors,andlotsofslidingglassdoors.“Eichlerdidagreatthing,”Jobssaidononeofourwalksaroundtheneighborhood.“Hishousesweresmartandcheapandgood.Theybroughtcleandesignandsimpletastetolower-incomepeople.Theyhadawesomelittlefeatures,likeradiantheatinginthefloors.Youputcarpetonthem,andwehadnicetoastyfloorswhenwewerekids.”JobssaidthathisappreciationforEichlerhomesinstilledinhimapassionformakingnicelydesignedproductsforthemassmarket.“Iloveitwhenyoucanbringreallygreatdesignandsimplecapabilitytosomethingthatdoesn’tcostmuch,”hesaidashepointedoutthecleaneleganceofthehouses.“ItwastheoriginalvisionforApple.That’swhatwetriedtodowiththefirstMac.That’swhatwedidwiththeiPod.”AcrossthestreetfromtheJobsfamilylivedamanwhohadbecomesuccessfulasarealestateagent.“Hewasn’tthatbright,”Jobsrecalled,“butheseemedtobemakingafortune.Somydadthought,‘Icandothat.’Heworkedsohard,Iremember.Hetookthesenightclasses,passedthelicensetest,andgotintorealestate.Thenthebottomfelloutofthemarket.”Asaresult,thefamilyfounditselffinanciallystrappedforayearorsowhileStevewasinelementaryschool.HismothertookajobasabookkeeperforVarianAssociates,acompanythatmadescientificinstruments,andtheytookoutasecondmortgage.Onedayhisfourth-gradeteacheraskedhim,“Whatisityoudon’tunderstandabouttheuniverse?”Jobsreplied,“Idon’tunderstandwhyallofasuddenmydadissobroke.”Hewasproudthathisfatherneveradoptedaservileattitudeorslickstylethatmayhavemadehimabettersalesman.“Youhadtosuckuptopeopletosellrealestate,andhewasn’tgoodatthatanditwasn’tinhisnature.Iadmiredhimforthat.”PaulJobswentbacktobeingamechanic.Hisfatherwascalmandgentle,traitsthathissonlaterpraisedmorethanemulated.Hewasalsoresolute.JobsdescribedoneexamplWhatmadetheneighborhooddifferentfromthethousandsofotherspindly-treesubdivisionsacrossAmericawasthateventhene’er-do-wellstendedtobeengineers.“Whenwemovedhere,thegh-techandmadelivinghereveryexciting.”Inthewakeofthedefenseindustriestherearoseaboomingeconomybasedontechnology.Itsrootsstretchedbackto1938,whenDavidPackardandhisnewwifemovedintoahouseinPaloAltothathadashedwherehisfriendBillHewlettwassoonensconced.Thehousehadagarage—anappendagethatwouldprovebothusefulandiconicinthevalley—inwhichtheytinkeredarounduntiltheyhadtheirfirstproduct,anaudiooscillator.Bythe1950s,Hewlett-Packardwasafast-growingcompanymakingtechnicalinstruments.Fortunatelytherewasaplacenearbyforentrepreneurswhohadoutgrowntheirgarages.InamovethatwouldhelptransfThemostimportanttechnologyfortheregion’sgrowthwas,ofcourse,thesemiconductor.WilliamShockley,whohadbeenoneoftheinventorsofthetransistoratBellLabsinNewJersey,movedouttoMountainViewand,in1956,startedacompanytobuildtransistorsusingsiliconratherthanthemoreexpensivegermaniumthatwasthencommonlyused.ButShockleybecameincreasinglyerraticandabandonedhissilicontransistorproject,whichledeightofhisengineers—mostnotablyRobertNoyceandGordonMoore—tobreakawaytoformFairchildSemiconductor.Thatcompanygrewtotwelvethousandemployees,butitfragmentedin1968,whenNoycelostapowerstruggletobecomeCEO.HetookGordonMooreandfoundedacompanythattheycalledIntegratedElectronicsCorporation,whichtheysoonsmartlyabbreviatedtoIntel.TheirthirdemployeewasAndrewGrove,wholaterwouldgrowthecompanybyshiftingitsfocusfrommemorychipstomicroprocessors.Withinafewyearstherewouldbemorethanfiftycompaniesintheareamakingsemiconductors.TheexponentialgrowthofthisindustrywascorrelatedwiththephenomenonfamouslydiscoveredbyMoore,whoin1965drewagraphofthespeedofintegratedcircuits,basedonthenumberoftransistorsthatcouldbeplacedonachip,andshowedthatitdoubledabouteverytwoyears,atrajectorythatcouldbeexpectedtocontinue.Thiswasreaffirmedin1971,whenIntelwasabletoetchacompletecentralprocessingunitontoonechip,theIntel4004,tronicamplifier.“SoIracedhome,andItoldmydadthathewaswrong.”“No,itneedsanamplifier,”hisfatherassuredhim.WhenSteveprotestedotherwise,hisfathersaidhewascrazy.“Itcan’tworkwithoutanamplifier.There’ssometrick.”“Ikeptsayingnotomydad,tellinghimhehadtoseeit,andfinallyheactuallywalkeddownwithmeandsawit.Andhesaid,‘WellI’llbeabatoutofhell.’”Jobsrecalledtheincidentvividlybecauseitwashisfirstrealizationthathisfatherdidnotknoweverything.Thenamoredisconcertingdiscoverybegantodawnonhim:Hewassmarterthanhisparents.Hehadalwaysadmiredhisfather’scompetenceandsavvy.“Hewasnotaneducatedman,butIhadalwaysthoughthewasprettydamnsmart.Hedidn’treadmuch,buthecoulddoalot.Almosteverythingmechanical,hecouldfigureitout.”Yetthecarbonmicrophoneincident,Jobssaid,beganajarringprocessofrealizingthathewasinfactmorecleverandquickthanhisparents.“Itwasaverybigmomentthat’sburnedintomymind.WhenIrealizedthatIwassmarterthanmyparents,Ifelttremendousshameforhavingthoughtthat.Iwillneverforgetthatmoment.”Thisdiscovery,helatertoldfriends,alongwiththefactthathewasadopted,madehimfeelapart—detachedandseparate—frombothhisfamilyandtheworld.Anotherlayerofawarenessoccurredsoonafter.Notonlydidhediscoverthathewasbrighterthanhisparents,buthediscoveredthattheyknewthis.PaulandClaraJobswerelovingparents,andtheywerewillingtoadapttheirlivestosuitasonwhowasverysmart—andalsowillful.Theywouldgotogreatlengthstoaccommodatehim.AndsoonStevediscoveredthisfactaswell.“Bothmyparentsgotme.TheyfeltalotofresponsibilityoncetheysensedthatIwasspecial.Theyfoundwaystokeepfeedingmestuffandputtingmeinbetterschools.Theywerewillingtodefertomyneeds.”Sohegrewupnotonlywithasenseofhavingoncebeenabandoned,butalsowithasensethathewasspecial.Inhisownmind,thatwasmoreimportantintheformationofhispersonality.SchoolEvenbeforeJobsstartedelementaryschool,hismotherhadtaughthimhowtoread.This,however,ledtosomeproblemsoncehegottoschool.“Iwaskindofboredforthefirstfewyear

58岁董文华不好消息传出,，揭露被“封杀”的原因

一字之差，3万人被烧死，3高官被处决

研究发现：床上很乱的人

大学女老师一天接客18人月入30万，被抓获后称：挣得太多没忍住

常言道，相由心生，貌由心转。

一个女人的状态如何，看看她的容颜和精神，便能知晓一二。

生活中，长期有性生活的女人，被人宠爱，脸上不自觉地会出现这3个明显特征。

皮肤红润气色好

女人如花，爱如雨露，在爱情的滋养下，女人才能始终明媚芬芳。

性生活美满的女人，从内而外得到滋润与呵护。

而且，做爱的时候，血液循环加速，刺激新陈代谢，无形中在给皮肤做按摩与保养。

时间久了，被爱意与幸福包围，心情舒畅，气色红润，人自然而然也会变得漂亮。

毛姆也曾说过：

“有好的性生活，是抵抗衰老的核心秘诀之一。”

幸福的性生活，其实也助于睡眠，每次酣畅淋漓后，会比平时睡得更香甜。

一个女人，心情好，睡眠好，气色会更好，脸上才能时时刻刻都散发着光芒。

心态乐观精神好

爱会让一个女人变得温柔平和，充满阳光，和谐的性生活也是如此。

婚姻幸福的女人，始终是笑脸盈盈，言行举止间都充满了善意。

生活中，大事小事都会和身边人分享倾诉，难过时有人安抚，受伤时有人拥抱。

她们有强大丰富的内心世界，对人对事，乐观豁达，积极向上，对每一天都充满着新的希望。

而婚姻不幸福的女人，她们的痛苦大多都是内心世界无法向爱人倾诉。

那些委屈与泪水无人知晓，无人倾听，也无人在意，每日里只有孤独寂寞相伴。

慢慢地，胸中戾气无处可发，便会导致脾气暴躁，抑郁成疾，精神萎靡。

身心快乐自信足

男人的自信来自于征服女人，那女人的自信定是来自于男人的欣赏。

生活中，女人越自信才会越美丽，好的感情，也都是越睡越幸福。

相爱的两个人在床上耳鬓厮磨，不仅可以让对方感受到快乐，自己也会信心满满。

而且爱人间的亲吻抚摸，炙热拥抱，这些直接的身体反应，都是两个人相爱的最好证明。

所以，愉快的性生活，无论从生理或心理上，都会让女人获得极大满足，变得兴奋欣喜。

当她们真切地感受到自己的魅力，知道自己被疼爱着，那每一天都会充满快乐与情趣。

好的爱情，便是如此，能把女人变得性感又自信，幸福又知足。

朋友圈看到一句话，觉得很有道理：

“一个女人的气质是从内而外散发出来的，对人对生活的态度从举手投足中就能感受到。”

那些眼中有光，嘴角含笑，心中有爱，自信乐观的女人，大多都从婚姻中获得了温暖与力量。

往后余生，愿你也能遇到良人，被呵护被珍爱。

抚琴有人听，心事有人叙，得到一生的温柔与陪伴。

你觉得性生活在婚姻中重要吗？欢迎在下方留言和九歌一起讨论。

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